Inspire Me Baby

Chubby Cheek Photography is easily becoming one of my favorite children’s photographer. You’ll love their ability to capture moments that tell a story on top of their clean and minimal photography style.

Shalonda has shared some wonderful tips on how to photograph your own children with your “fancy” camera.

From Chubby Cheek Photography: Having been in business for four crazy years, weekend after weekend of session after session, I have been burned out and back so many times.  My normal everyday relationship with my camera was not a pretty one…dare I say it…yes I will…I began to hate my camera.  when we were playing in the backyard I didn’t want to fiddle with it so I wouldn’t get it.  when we went to the zoo, aquarium, museum I wouldn’t take it, it was too cumbersome, bulky, in the way, just too much to handle with a 2 year old and 4 year old.  Plus, if I’m being honest, I do not own a backup so if something happened to it while we were out, it was bad bad news for me from a business perspective.

But earlier this year I realized that I was not being fair to my own kids or to myself.  I spend so much time capturing moments for strangers and totally missing moments for myself…I vowed to no longer rely on a cell phone or point and shoot cameras, yes I had this camera for my business BUT I also had it for myself!  I paid a lot for it and all of the bells and whistles, I spent a lot of time learning how to use it properly and by golly, I deserved to capture my own memories with it!  So that’s what I have been doing and I haven’t looked back.

Tips for improving your relationship with your camera and shooting for yourself:

1.  Live and shoot for today.
While photo a day projects are fun, they are also difficult to commit to and keep up with.  So just set a goal to take your camera out to capture everyday moments of your own children once a week.

2.  Don’t shoot as a business owner shoot as a mom.
Just shoot for yourself and for your kids.  Trust in your ability as a photographer.  These images don’t have to be technically perfect or perfectly edited, in fact you may never edit them but at least you have them!

3.   Shoot the unexpected, spice it up.
Take your camera with you to one unexpected place that you regularly go to.  I promise this is addicting!  If your family goes to a favorite restaurant every week/month take your camera.  We all go to the grocery store every week, if your kids go with you like mine do, take your camera.  Maybe yall go to home depot every sunday after church, yep you guessed it take your camera.  The point is be creative, try new shooting or editing techniques.

4.  Don’t take your camera or your “moments” for granted.
You have been given a gift and the knowledge of how to use it, do it!  Our kids are so lucky to have moms/dads who are photographers, but I think so many of us have found that we are so busy with other peoples shoots that we are lucky to get in a yearly shoot for our own kids, me included.  Stop that!  Stop it today!

Remember it doesn’t have to be the perfect lighting or a perfectly set up shoot…playing in the playroom, reading books on their beds, bubbling up in the bath, helping with chores….it doesn’t matter just CAPTURE THEM BEING THEM, you won’t regret it!

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43 Comments

  • Comment by Leina Wade — April 20, 2011 @ 7:43 am

    Gorgeous photos! I sometimes forget to take photos of my own kids, and it’s something I need to work on!

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  • Comment by lara — April 20, 2011 @ 9:57 am

    This Inspire Me Baby is such a perfect place for you Shalonda! such beautiful perfect images and wonderfully wise words!!!

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  • Comment by Danielle — April 20, 2011 @ 10:21 am

    Love! :) you are such an inspiration!!

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  • Comment by Brandi — April 20, 2011 @ 10:45 am

    I kind of did it backwards from many mothers who are photographers.. I was a photographer first, then I had a baby. I am currently doing a 365 and I don’t let myself worry about a photo being perfect.. I just want to capture the moment.

    Cute photos! Love the grocery store one especially.

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  • Comment by Zoe — April 20, 2011 @ 10:47 am

    Thanks – I needed to hear this. SO bad about just grabbing my iphone for pics of the kiddos, mainly so I won’t have to edit. I think I need to just set up one of the custom settings as “personal” and set it to JPG so I won’t edit. Then just download to a folder, like I did before I was a photographer.

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  • Comment by Jennifer — April 20, 2011 @ 10:48 am

    Great job, Shalonda! Love the pictures you’ve been taking of your girls recently and the great advice :)

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  • Comment by Brandi — April 20, 2011 @ 11:01 am

    I am a huge fan of Shay & her work!! Awesome interview :)

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  • Comment by heidi — April 20, 2011 @ 11:56 am

    i loved all these pics. :)

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  • Comment by kelsey {las vegas wedding photographer} — April 20, 2011 @ 12:36 pm

    Such a cute pics! Love the tips!

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  • Comment by Laurie — April 20, 2011 @ 12:46 pm

    SO glad you posted this!! I was just thinking about buying a point and shoot to take on everyday events because my camera is too bulky! I might need to rethink that!

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    Josephine Casanova Reply:

    haha Laurie that’s funny you mentioned that because I was thinking about buying a point and shoot too so I could spare myself the trouble of carting around my professional camera. :)

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    Joni LeBaron Reply:

    That is funny I was thinking the same thing, but really who cares if we have our big cameras in public places, I’ve never looked down on any body for doing that.
    I loved the grocery store shots so realistic and true to what really happens in our families, I believe when our kids are grown up the shots that we take in just our everyday life will be the most real and precious rather than just posing for the camera, thanks for this post..

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  • Comment by Angelique — April 20, 2011 @ 5:35 pm

    I know first hand how fabulous Mrs. S really is! She just did a sneak peek for my son’s 2nd birthday and all I can say is AMAZING!! Here is a quick look if you would like http://www.chubbycheekphotography.com/blog/?p=3038

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  • Comment by Crystal — April 20, 2011 @ 7:10 pm

    So totally true! And I actually DID take my camera with me to Home Depot once and caught the kids building little birdhouses. Still a fave little memory. Not the most technically correct images but I HAVE THEM. I have caught myself going weeks without shooting them for all the reasons you listed…and then looked back and regretted it. Regretted it terribly – esp since one of those phases was during my baby’s first few months. how sad is that :( Thanks for the great advice and BEAUTIFUL images, as usual. :)

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  • Comment by Josephine Casanova — April 21, 2011 @ 8:46 am

    Love this piece, it’s so true. I have been guilty of the same things, I have been wanting to take my camera all over but I don’t want to break the darn thing and it’s big and bulky. This week I will take my camera un-expected. :)I am a fan of Chubby Cheeks Photography too :)

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  • Comment by Dawnelle — April 21, 2011 @ 10:26 am

    Wise words indeed. Thanks for sharing your beautiful work and wisdom.

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  • Comment by Veronica — April 21, 2011 @ 8:27 pm

    You make me want to take my kids grocery shopping! I am always inspired by your work! You keep it real!

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  • Comment by Lerissa — April 22, 2011 @ 8:51 am

    What a GREAT article…LOVE IT…and I’m so inspired, as a mom & photographer to capture each precious moment!

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  • Comment by Angela — April 22, 2011 @ 8:34 pm

    So exciting to see Shay featured here! I’ve been a big fan for several years now…love!

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  • Comment by Mindy — April 22, 2011 @ 9:08 pm

    Oh I love this post! Just wish my 5yo didn’t hate my camera so much already! :(

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  • Comment by Rachel Blackwood — April 27, 2011 @ 6:46 am

    Dad painting the toenails is great! What a great series, beautiful work!

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  • Comment by Photographe mariage Luxembourg — May 12, 2011 @ 12:49 am

    All my votes for number 1 and number 3 !
    Congratulations, very well done !
    I also have some children photos on my site – please feel free to visit :-)

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  • Comment by jo — July 11, 2011 @ 2:30 pm

    a lightbulb just went off while i was reading this! we have been going to the library as a family every week this summer, but i’ve never thought of bringing my camera. this is going to be such a great way of capturing what my family was like this summer; thanks! and beautiful pictures, by the way.

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  • Comment by Carrie Daly — October 4, 2011 @ 6:04 pm

    Thanks! I needed this!

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  • Comment by Kelly Tirman — October 5, 2011 @ 4:30 am

    Great advice and BEAUTIFUL photos. I am pinning and stumbling this!

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  • Comment by Val Spring — October 26, 2011 @ 8:05 am

    I totally needed to “hear” this! THANK YOU!

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  • Comment by Jessica Deane — November 29, 2011 @ 2:35 pm

    LOVE this post. I’m a HUGE proeveryday life photographer :) Enjoyed this post!

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  • Comment by Melissa — December 7, 2011 @ 11:18 am

    Love this post. Alot.

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  • Comment by MamaBear — December 12, 2011 @ 8:42 pm

    I agree 100%! I find it especially difficult in the cold winter months to get my camera out for every day moments because the lighting is so poor indoors and I know I won’t be thrilled with the technical results. I know in my heart that the point is to capture the moments but my head doesn’t compute. To fight this trend when it comes to missed opportunities when we are cooped up all winter is a weekly meme I host called Alphabitty Moments. Always being on the lookout for the fleeting every day moments of childhood forces me to think outside the box to find a word to match that week’s letter of the alphabet and to take photos that I otherwise would have missed.

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    Love your photography! Beautiful work!!

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  • Comment by Kim — January 19, 2012 @ 6:57 pm

    Ah! Thank you. I have an 8 month old…despite how overly photographed he is, it is mostly with my iPhone. I needed this! I love your #3 advice. The grocery store photo above is so fun!

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  • Comment by Roxanna — February 3, 2012 @ 12:52 am

    These photos touched my heart… Thank you for sharing!

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    I loved reading this blog! Gives all us mom with cameras a little more confidence! I am a new mommy and want to buy a camera…. what do you recommend?

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    Love these! Especially the one of the girls getting their toenails painted. That looks like something my husband will do with our children because he paints mine!

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