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2011Inspire: Photographing Your Own Children by Chubby Cheek Photography
Chubby Cheek Photography is easily becoming one of my favorite children’s photographer. You’ll love their ability to capture moments that tell a story on top of their clean and minimal photography style.
Shalonda has shared some wonderful tips on how to photograph your own children with your “fancy” camera.
From Chubby Cheek Photography: Having been in business for four crazy years, weekend after weekend of session after session, I have been burned out and back so many times. My normal everyday relationship with my camera was not a pretty one…dare I say it…yes I will…I began to hate my camera. when we were playing in the backyard I didn’t want to fiddle with it so I wouldn’t get it. when we went to the zoo, aquarium, museum I wouldn’t take it, it was too cumbersome, bulky, in the way, just too much to handle with a 2 year old and 4 year old. Plus, if I’m being honest, I do not own a backup so if something happened to it while we were out, it was bad bad news for me from a business perspective.
But earlier this year I realized that I was not being fair to my own kids or to myself. I spend so much time capturing moments for strangers and totally missing moments for myself…I vowed to no longer rely on a cell phone or point and shoot cameras, yes I had this camera for my business BUT I also had it for myself! I paid a lot for it and all of the bells and whistles, I spent a lot of time learning how to use it properly and by golly, I deserved to capture my own memories with it! So that’s what I have been doing and I haven’t looked back.
Tips for improving your relationship with your camera and shooting for yourself:
1. Live and shoot for today.
While photo a day projects are fun, they are also difficult to commit to and keep up with. So just set a goal to take your camera out to capture everyday moments of your own children once a week.
2. Don’t shoot as a business owner shoot as a mom.
Just shoot for yourself and for your kids. Trust in your ability as a photographer. These images don’t have to be technically perfect or perfectly edited, in fact you may never edit them but at least you have them!
3. Shoot the unexpected, spice it up.
Take your camera with you to one unexpected place that you regularly go to. I promise this is addicting! If your family goes to a favorite restaurant every week/month take your camera. We all go to the grocery store every week, if your kids go with you like mine do, take your camera. Maybe yall go to home depot every sunday after church, yep you guessed it take your camera. The point is be creative, try new shooting or editing techniques.
4. Don’t take your camera or your “moments” for granted.
You have been given a gift and the knowledge of how to use it, do it! Our kids are so lucky to have moms/dads who are photographers, but I think so many of us have found that we are so busy with other peoples shoots that we are lucky to get in a yearly shoot for our own kids, me included. Stop that! Stop it today!
Remember it doesn’t have to be the perfect lighting or a perfectly set up shoot…playing in the playroom, reading books on their beds, bubbling up in the bath, helping with chores….it doesn’t matter just CAPTURE THEM BEING THEM, you won’t regret it!
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Audrey
This is a great reminder. I am curious…when you take your camera to places like the grocery store- do you bring a flash? If so what type? diffuser? Do you have a go to setting for these quick moments? I have been trying to bring my bigger camera more often. I get frustrated if I miss the shot and it’s all blurry.
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Jessica
I always have my iphone out, but need to take my good camera out more. Thanks for the reminder. I love that you have the date and time on these photos too, great idea!
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Jenn Musto
You are so right! I’m glad to hear another mom/Photographer who has gone through this and come up with such an awesome perspective… After reading this I will take my camera to the grocery store…or another unexpected common place ;) thank you!
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Heather
Love this! :) So many places don’t allow photos to be taken though. :(
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Denise Reply:
May 16th, 2013 at 5:45 am
My answer to this problem is to take pictures where you can. For example, we recently brought our children to a Harry Potter exhibit in New York. No cameras were allowed but there was a flying car attached to the building and a huge promo picture in the foyer. Memories captured, no rules broken. Happy snapping!
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KRISTINA
Just wondering… what type of camera do you have and what lens do you keep on it when you go to these “expected every day” locations? That is, I am assuming you don’t bring your entire professional photo setup! ;)
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ashley staley
Thank you…thank you VERY much for the gentle smack back into MY moments with MY family….I needed that! : )
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David
Amazing photos and great tipps, thank you very much! Love how you make it look and sound all very simple, makes your articles super motivating.
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Tina
I am so glad I ran across your post. I am soon to be a 1st time mom in July and already feel I have put photographing my family second. I am also like you I have that one camera and I have the fear of breaking it. My goal is before July to purchase a second used camera to be my back – up . Thanks for the tips and inspiration. Love your work. Life is too short to miss a thing. That is why I started photographing in the first place.
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Jillian
This is the main and only reason I want a DSLR. To capture my family moments!
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Jennifer
Wondering if you have a certain program you use for editing? Something you can recommend for beginners?
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Mum2BabyInsomniac
Gorgeous photos. I LOVE the first one!
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Pamela Halstead
I have been doing this exact thing for 30 years. My camera has always been my friend. I have amazing pics of my kiddos ( and nieces and nephews neighbors and classmates and and now grandchildren). Black and white snapshots line my stairwell and adorn the tops of every table and the piano and the inside of my kitchen cabinet doors and bathroom vanity doors. I am not a big fan of photo albums but I love a box of photos. Photos and my kiddos are my treasures! Thanks!
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Denise
Caution! Photography can be addictive! LOL
Thanks for the tips and keep up the good work.
Happy snapping!
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Tracey
The pics and tips are great. Is there a way you could tell what lens and settings you used to capture these moments. I never know what lens to have or what settings for everyday moments? Thx! I am an amatuer, learning–any advice would be helpful!
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Judy Sheldon-Walker
I love my little point and shoot. It has literally opened up my world and the possibilities of saving precious memories.
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